Happy Valentine's Day -WOTD -"Self-Love" - start your day with DJ. 😁💕❤️#237

Today is February 14th, Happy Valentine's Day ❤️💕❤️💕

On today's show:  Have a lot to go over today, It is Wednesday Fun Day, horrible pick-up lines, trending, and Music segment, which I will continue with songs banned after 911, so let's get at it…

We are back, Bamm Bamm & Pebbles will be hosting, "Connecting through movies and their soundtracks," this Thursday at 7pm MTN!!  We will be watching and having a LIVE screen chat on the Podbean app. 

**I like to start the show with the word of the day & quote of the day.  Spreading knowledge is a powerful way of adding value to the world.

So let's go!

Today's word of the day is  " self-love "

//: regard for one's own well-being and happiness (chiefly considered as a desirable rather than narcissistic characteristic).

**Quote of the day:

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"How you love yourself is how your teach others to love you."  - Rupi Kaur

What is Self-Love?

Self-love means that you accept yourself fully, treat yourself with kindness and respect, and continue to grow and care for your well-being.

It also includes those pesky thoughts and feelings about ourselves. 

When you love yourself, you have an overall positive view of yourself.  This doesn't mean yo u feel positive about yourself all the time, you are only human.    You can be temporarily upset about something, yet still love yourself.  Remember, you do this for people you love.  A good example would be your children.  They may have done something that made you mad and upset, BUT you still love them.  You need to treat yourself the same way.

Why do we need to love ourselves?

For some of us we may have grew up without any models for self-love or anyone who talked to you about the importance of being good to yourself, you might question the value of self-love.

Without it, you're likely to be highly self-critical and fall into people pleasing and perfectionism.  You are more likely to tolerate abuse or mistreatment from others.  You may neglect your own needs and feeling.

When you understand self-love, you know it is the foundation that allows us to be assertive, set boundaries and create healthy relationships with others, practice self-care, pursue our interests and goals, and feel proud of who we are.

Now do not get self-love confused with narcissism.  Narcissists believe they are better than others, will not take responsibility for their mistakes, and they lack empathy for others.

Self-love on the other hand, isn't about showing off how great you are.  People who love themselves in a healthy way know that they are flawed and make mistakes and they accept and care about themselves despite their imperfections.  Self-love doesn't prevent you from caring about others, it simply means you can give yourself the same kindness that you give to others.

**Ok let's listen to this

Ask yourself this question as often as you can: "What would someone who loves themselves do?"  Ask yourself this question whenever you need to make a decision, be it trivial or important, cause guess what? You are important.

You got this…I believe in you!

**Joke of the day

**Corny Valentine's Day pickup lines

**National Holiday's

 

**There are a bunch of food recalls

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HannyJ - Friends

Podbean Podcast Nation on Facebook - promote your podcasts

Self-improvement Daily -Brian Ford - Self Improvement

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SouthOzMan - Real, Raw & Revised Media - Down Under

The Beans and Weenies - Variety

The Humble Dog - Professional dog trainer

The Mindset Mentor - Rob Dial - Self Improvement

The Rocking Al Show - Self Improvement

The Why Run! Podcast - Society, Personal Development - check her out on Youtube

WKOP- The Wrong Kind of Podcast - Society

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Much Love,

Dena Jo aka DJ Pebbles